feat(replication): add retry logic

[meskill]

• Adds lock_timeout configuration setting to pass it to pg server
• Adds retry mechanism for the replication.

This at some degree could help with the cross-shared dead-locks and fix the issue with tests in #924 if configured

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 68.44262% with 77 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...nd/replication/logical/publisher/publisher_impl.rs	51.96%	49 Missing ⚠️
...c/backend/replication/logical/subscriber/stream.rs	50.00%	9 Missing ⚠️
.../src/backend/replication/logical/publisher/slot.rs	0.00%	8 Missing ⚠️
pgdog/src/backend/pool/cluster.rs	57.14%	6 Missing ⚠️
pgdog/src/backend/pool/pool_impl.rs	33.33%	4 Missing ⚠️
pgdog/src/frontend/client/query_engine/test/set.rs	97.05%	1 Missing ⚠️

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